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by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:39 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Position Training

Position training is used to keep your slave available but not intrusive, to help her regain slave space, to punish her, to ease your access to her and to teach her to be focused on only one thing. Just as important, position training helps a slave learn patience. A slave is not always being used, a...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:37 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Sample Task Schedule

Body: Sample Task Schedule No doubt about it - this is micro management. slaves tend to love it, Masters usually despise it. At its most efficient, this form shouldn't be necessary once your slave has adjusted to your expectations. Try using it for the first 2-3 months of training. Then either cut i...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:35 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Slave Training: Body: Service Training

"Loyalty means nothing unless it has at its heart the absolute principal of self-sacrifice." - W. T. Wilson The most important thing you can do as a Master is to be specific in your expectations of the slave, and consistent in their enforcement. You can be spontaneous, but don't be "o...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:33 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Establishing the Rules

"Duty is not beneficial because it is commanded, but commanded because it is beneficial." -Benjamin Franklin Before establishing a set of rules, it is helpful to determine your goals for the relationship. Ideally, you and your slave should have a clear understanding of the goals before eve...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:33 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Domination through Disclosure

Understanding the mind of your slave is the first step, and perhaps the most important step, toward controlling her. In the first stages of training, you must create an atmosphere of "revelation," in which your slave is not only allowed, but required to reveal herself to you. You must be a...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:32 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Techniques for Establishing Control

A slave in training must feel her Master's control in every aspect of her life. The best way to begin achieving control over mind, body & spirit is through the use of restriction. Once the slave understands that her freedoms are being denied her, she understands the scope of her commitment and b...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:31 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Slave Contract

Note: The following is not the contract between myself & slave yielding - our names have been used to facilitate readability. Training Contract between Master Stern and yielding This contract has been read and discussed, and is understood by both Master Stern & yielding to be a binding docum...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:31 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Re: Intro to BDSM

A slave contract is in no way legally binding. It's purpose is to solidify the points of agreement between you and the slave-in-training, and to provide a ritualistic gesture, which increases the slave's awareness of the importance of the commitment. Include in it the only the most pertinent informa...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:20 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Relationship Goals

"Long-term 24/7 BDSM is a marathon, not a sprint." Steve & Carolyn Vakesh Before beginning a training program, you must have a clear idea where you want the relationship to go. It is essential, as it is in any long-term relationship, to understand one another and to be clear about indi...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:17 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

In The Beginning

Do not begin this program lightly: This program is not a guide to the BDSM scene, a manual for curious couples, or a method by which sexual fantasies are fulfilled. It is a truncated guide to a way of life, and is intended for those who wish to create an environment for themselves that enhances thei...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:14 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

24/7 A Dose of Reality

During the creation and posting of this site, we've encountered one or two raised eyebrows and several questions regarding the practicality and the possibility of such an obviously structured and severely defined lifestyle. We have read and heard that 24/7 BDSM just doesn't work "After all,&quo...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:11 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

slave Guidelines

A slave is a slave by choice; her Master’s slave by His generous consent. she is among the few and fortunate – one of those people who is able to live her dream. When accepting her Master's collar, a slave must do so with the knowledge that her lifestyle will be inexorably changed, and that her ...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:11 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Master's Guidelines

"The property of power is to protect." - Blaise Pascal Guidelines are based on 5 primary principals: Caring, Discipline, Consistency, Devotion, and Honesty In many ways the responsibilities of the Master are simpler than those of a slave. The first of his responsibilities is self-disciplin...
by Loraen
Fri Jul 23, 2010 7:53 am
Forum: The Corkboard
Topic: Intro to BDSM
Replies: 24
Views: 54309

Intro to BDSM

A lot of people come to me asking for literature on BDSM. I learned from this website when I was younger and new to the BDSM world. It has since been taken down because it used to be maintain by a real life Master and slave couple. They broke up, the material was deleted. I'll be pasting excerpts of...
by Loraen
Tue Jun 22, 2010 9:17 am
Forum: The Docks
Topic: Anyone order a nude caribou?
Replies: 6
Views: 4332

Re: Anyone order a nude caribou?

Look! It's Swash's long lost twin.
by Loraen
Sat Mar 20, 2010 4:41 pm
Forum: The Docks
Topic: Well, hello there!
Replies: 8
Views: 5476

Re: Well, hello there!

Welcome back.
by Loraen
Thu Mar 04, 2010 5:05 pm
Forum: The Library
Topic: Tessa Raleigh (Unowned)
Replies: 2
Views: 3199

Bill of Sale

Tacked to the girl's papers was a bill of sale, denoting a change of ownership. Below, it was signed by one of the establishment's managers and the respective buyers in a flourish. Know all men by these presents that we the Management of The Golden Tether late of Guildereim have bargain and sold an...
by Loraen
Wed Feb 24, 2010 3:40 pm
Forum: The Library
Topic: Ésmeraude (owned)
Replies: 1
Views: 2980

Re: Ésmeraude (owned)

Tacked to the girl's papers was a bill of sale, denoting a change of ownership. Below, it was signed by one of the establishment's managers and the respective buyers in a flourish. Know all men by these presents that we the Management of The Golden Tether late of Guildereim have bargain and sold an...